I'm sorry that you are going through this. When I had surgery a few years ago, my husband also guilted me or just took my short supply of pain pills as if he was entitled to them. I'm sorry that I don't have any answers for you right now because my husband is still active ( does have a legal prescription instead of buying them on the streets) but we are not living together right now and won't be until he gets sober and is actively working a program. I do worry about the future though also since I will have some surgeries scheduled in the future. I hope that your health improves and he stays clean. Best wishes.