My problem is I still have ALL her stuff and haven't decided what to do with it... Did I get played? of course, and so did you, ask yourself one VERY simple question, did you ever really feel loved?
Yes, this is an excellent question (theotherhalf), once all the drama of the borderline is removed,
did you feel in your heart loved? Or, just lucky if she gave you some good attention?
RedBaron, my condolences on the hard way you learned. I have to learn the hard way
too, but I do get it. Sorry for your pain, but so glad
you are free.
What do you want to do with her112t stuff?
Do the right thing for
YOU.
theotherhalf, yes, the answer is leave it alone.
closure? that is a buzz word used by media mavens.
Live the 12 steps for codependents, and leave her out of your life.
It will never, ever get better.
Beth
