Originally Posted by
Ann 
I only visited my son once in jail and it was awful. He played me like a fine fiddle and I bailed him out...with a thousand tears and promises to do whatever I told him to do...and he lasted less than an hour on bail before he went to use.
I never again went to jail, or court, I didn't even accept calls from jail.
You don't have to do anything...why not take the day with your husband and go for a drive in the country. I guarantee you will both feel better than if you go to visit at jail. Maybe even stop for dinner along the way and enjoy the beauty of the day. WE don't have to go to jail with out kids, not even emotionally.
Hope you are wiser than I was, you'll be happier sooner if you are.
Hugs from a jailbird's mama's heart.
Update. Well I decided not to go and his girlfriend decided not to go. My husband did decide to go. He should be on his way there now. He had to work today and I could tell he wanted me to go. I said "Well they are open till 8:00 and you will be home at 6:00 so if you want to go then do it. Originally he was the one that swore he wouldn't go. I hope HE doesn't cave.
My other son called me and asked me to go to lunch and then we went back to his house and swam in his pool. Then we went and did a little shopping. I am a little sunburned but other than that it was a very restful and relaxing day.
Now I'm worried that my husband will cave but he has to do what he has to do too.
Kari