I remembered a thread that was started by another of our Mods in the FFSA forum about protecting ourselves financially. You mentioned not wanting to check the checking account....you may want to reconsider if you have not yet separated your finances (i.e. have your pay deposited into an account in your name only).
I'm sharing this so that others can read it too. Lots of great advice here!
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...resources.html