Geez, well I'd be angry too : ) I'd count SR as one...at least, it's one of mine. Isolation threatens sobriety. We need to connect with others in the journey of recovery..and well, life for that matter. So I guess slamming someone in the face is human connection right? Not the healthiest but perhaps..that's what it is. Fighting..and arguing even..is a displaced, destructive, dysfunctional form of intimacy.