Originally Posted by
BlueChair 
Maybe I read what you wrote wrong, but it looks like you are just asking if it is good for someone in recovery to be with people who are clean and live well. I think the answer to this is yes. I think people are thinking your saying that you feel like you can save him, or you can keep him clean. I dont think that is a responsibility you want to take on and from what I can gather that would be codependent because your not making it a real relationship, your making it about saving someone.
I think I am codependent to a point but I genuinely just want to be there for him. I guess I just don't know how someone who has never been through addiction can help if at all. I do have romantic feelings for him so this may be why I'm trying to "save" him. I want what's best for myself naturally but I also want him safe and happy and drug free.