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Carlotta I would also like to add that offering "help" to someone who is not asking for it is a very codependent thing to do and is a good way to set oneself to get hurt.
With your help will come your expectations (intimacy) and when it does not materialize (let s say he
I have a terrible tendency to set myself up to be hurt. Thank you for your advice, you've given me a lot to think about.