New relationship with an old, newly sober lover
Let me start by saying I have no personal history with substance abuse, but I recently started falling for a man who I've had casual nsa sex with on and off for the last five years. Until recently there was nothing but pure physical attraction between us. Lately I've been starting to catch feelings for him. He isn't into having a relationship because he's 11 months sober from pills and heroin and doesn't want to mess up his recovery. I have no perspective on this, I would never want to mess with his recovery because I do care for him deeply, but I find myself falling for him more every day. What should I do?