Originally Posted by firebolt

Oh wouldn't it be easier if they were just complete jerks that were mean to us, cheated on us, or hit us?!

It's my sickness - where I tell myself, "well, it's not THAT bad, he doesn't hit me."

Gawd.... that just reinforces that I need to focus on ME and MY health! I'm as effed up as he is I swear.

You can do this! - it is surprising how much peace and serenity we feel just being AWAY form the addiction!