Hi Devastated,
I vote No also. I agree with M.G. and
your husband.
Have you read the "sticky" columns at
the top of the forums-good reading.
Practice, practice, practice. Devastated,
I have done all you are doing. I have
been working on this since February (every
day) and I'm making progress.
There's a saying here-Hands Off The Addict-Step Away From The Addict!!!
Put that focus on your recovery and that
wise hubby of yours. And let the boy-
(man) figure this out.
It doesn't mean we don't love them-it
means we love them enough to let them go
and make their own decisions and take
responsibility for themselves.
We have no control!
Hugs,