lillamy, thanks, I think that's were I'm headed....I've had enough and it's OK to say that I've had enough.
I know deep down my kids know something's wrong, that we're not the happiest of couples, but they don't see their dad drinking alot, as my husband hides everything...oh apart fromm the time my, then 7 year old, pulled a half empty bottle of Troika out of the heating vent and came into the living room holding it up to everyone and asking why it was there....sheeeshh...I take it back Lillamy, they know