Yeah, that steel trap memory of theirs...
I got the phone call about my friend's fathers death (he had been sick for a while) with him in the room. He was in the room when I burst into tears on the phone. I spent the next hour pouring my heart to him about about this amazing man that had been there with me through some tough times, and was now gone. Yeah, he was interrupting me the whole time, and his eyes were playing tug o war with eachother....I should have known, but I was upset and disregarded the obvious...
Two days later, he asked me "if he had died yet?"
One of those "I need to change my life" lightbulb moments for me. I really hope theres only a couple more of those before I ACTUALLY do it.