Originally Posted by
DreamsofSerenity 
Total memory loss. We'd have a lengthy conversation. He wouldn't seem drunk at all. Then the next day, he wouldn't remember any of it, but he wouldn't admit it. If I pressed him on it, he'd get furious and leave.
Same. Things like this made me shutdown my conversations and go into mundane things like "oh, hi, cool, ok, great, wow, uh huh" as she blabbed about whatever, of course never really asking about me. Once in a blue moon when she would gasp for air she would ask me about something really important going on in my life and then keep blabbering.
I used to actually put thought and listen to her before I noticed the memory loss/lack of empathy part.