i'm sorry....but if my classification for my chosen partner is DOUCHE BAG.. what the hell am I doing staying with said douche bag for another 10 minutes? if he's that awful...then WHY? if he disgusts us....if we revile their very existence, recoil from their touch, find all they do and how they live abhorrent, then WHY? why stay? regaling THEIR ills, faults and fallacies is one thing....DOING something about it, quite another eh? like, why don't you just quit? isn't that what we say to THEM?