When you stop eating and bathing....
Oh man. I'm watching some sort of wife swap show with the AH. Happens to be an episode dealing with severe compulsion. This family spend 8-10 hours a day playing sweepstakes. The parents are obsessed. OBSESSED!
I was intrigued right away because I knew it would be interesting to watch with the AH.
The swapped wife dragged the husband to a counselor who said he very likely had a compulsion and a problem.
Of course the husband denied it. Then he said,"If you stop bathing or eating, then it's a problem."
"Hear that, honey? It's a problem when you stop bathing and eating."
"I bathe."
"Occasionally."
"I eat."
"Eventually." (Wouldn't want to interfere with getting his drunk on...he'll eat right before he goes to bed, sometimes he passes out before he even eats.)
So... what are some things that you notice that support the fact that your loved one is an alcoholic that they deny? Or what were some of the things you did while active that you look back on and think,"Oy!"?