I always get a little feisty when I see people saying other people aren't 'ready' - none of us can possibly know that of another - much less after a few posts.
Being ready is not always an event - it's a state of mind, surely?
If someone had told me I 'wasn't ready' I would have run with that and drank some more....
Carly - if you want to change - even if it's just a little part of you that wants that right now...fan that spark
this is the place to be - there's a ton of support and wisdom here
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