Originally Posted by
iwh 
if you saw a clear cut victim of an abusive family and that person became an alcoholic, you would still place the blame on them?
Ahhhh the blame game. So prevalent in this day and age. I'm an alcoholic and I lay the blame on it on me.
Yes, I come from a family of alcoholics, that isn't my fault, I can't control that, but I can control what I do. I chose to escape in a bottle. That is on me.
Lots of people have crappy childhoods etc, and they don't turn to booze or drugs or do crappy things to other people.