Yes, the beginning of Carlotta' s post, about the cat out of the bag and getting support.
The other night, I had to stay with my husband's parents. His mother told me that if I needed a place to get on my feet, I could stay there, until I can get on my own.
Can't tell you how empowering it is to have an OPTION now, and what that does for the dynamic between my husband and I, where he, up until now, knew that given my health and that I have no one here (I moved to be with this winner), that saving up the means to get away would take me forever (though certainly not impossible).... and he knew that I had no leverage.
Now I do. And I just might take that option very soon.
Even on my drive to his parent's house I wondered if I did the right thing.
I did.