As co dependents it is very difficult for us to see the pain of our A's suffering the consequences of their behavior.
The truth is, your husband is still engaging you , because he wants you to take responsibility for the consequences he is suffering. This is emotional immaturity on his part.
You should feel convicted , that what you did, you did for your own well being, if he doesn't see it that way, too bad.
This is his work, not yours. If it were me, I would no longer engage in a coversation with him on this particular subject.
You did the right thing. That is all you need to know.