Neither of them did, the police got involved and they pressed the charges.
Folks I know what steps to make, I just can't seem to pick my lead feet up and make them. I'm not a stupid wome (I like to think), but obviously this addiction has got a great hold of myself. He's 48 years old, and he's been drinking all of his life. It would be a safe bet to say that this is the first time in his life that he has actually sought out some kind of help, and of course, thanks to me, I found it for him. Maybe he's doing these things now to help him stay out of jail this time to show the judge, who knows. Maybe he will flee and look over his shoulder the rest of his life, maybe he will just check out cause he's a miserable human being. Thanks for the reply's people, I really do appreciate it, like I said I need to pick up my feet and move.