You are so right...I owe him nothing!!! Not sure if it is worth the risk. I'm sooo confused!!! I just don't know what to do.
I agree with the others that said maybe you could just leave this for now.
You do owe him nothing at all.
If you are in any way upset worried or anxious, then no is the best answer,
it would be for me.
I had let go of all the angst against my ex when he wanted to do that,
and sadly, he still did/does not get it.
"No, ex husband, what you owe is between you and the state, I can do nothing.
I did not cause it, I can not control it, and I can not cure it. Pay the money,
then get your license!"
first is always you, take care of and love yourself first.
Beth