What you say is true Ladyblue. I had a similar insight yesterday when I went to my former Pub for a cheeseburger. Most of my former drinking buddies were there. Yes, I've noticed that the dynamic has changed between us. Take away the drinking and we really don't have much in common. But, what I really noticed was that I do not want to spend MY time around them anymore. My life has changed so much in three months and I'm very conscious of how I spend my time now.