I am at my alcoholic friend's home and he has the hangover of the century. It's all it takes for me not to switch into AA 12 stepping mode and tell him:
"You never have to feel that way again" and "There is a solution".
Me keeping my mouth shut is not so much because I work such a great Al Anon program but that he is so miserable, he would probably throw an empty beer can at me if I said "I told you so" :rotfxko