Well in the case of the people I'm talking about I don't think any of them are looking for answers. They had a holiday, drank to much and are paying for it today.
I do have one friend though that I wish would find his way here. He posted a pic of himself and his son the other day (one of maybe 2 or 3 I've ever seen that he didn't have a drink in his hand) and you can just see it in his face. I grew up with him, he was the boy I wanted to marry when I was 7 LOL. I said wow where is the guy I once knew, if he's still there he's buried deep.
He never posts about his hangovers because I'm sure it's a part of daily life for him.