Trouble shared, is trouble halved
I guess that the beauty of a forum like SR and its accessible anywhere, anytime. Like everything else we can certainly over do it. Of course many people are so much worse off than us - particularly with small children involved - and I really feel for them. GardenMama I think you said it right -
work on loving detachment and let go of the college thing"
I got the same advise from another parent here at SR. I will work on it. And yes, lets keep in touch.