Thanks for your replies and comments. They help. Justfor1, I don't mind his working as a laborer (its a min wage job with inconsistent hours, also as you said dangerous if he is high). Also I can see he is depressed and did not look too good (unshaven, uncombed etc.) Pretty sure he is eating badly. Just existing day to day. I feel terrible for him but it is his choice. He may have some mental issues like social phobias etc. but hard to say with the pot.
NM & DJ, I did get him out of trouble once with the police. Not doing it again. HH & LMN, thanks for sharing your experience. I am practicing detachment but do slip from time to time. I do find I spend a lot of time in SR. Is this healthy?