MT,
Well bless your heart.
your behavior triggers me, but does not send me into an emotional upset, thanks for the concern. It serves to help identify. Recovery work includes learning to identify red flags.
So, I consider it a good thing that I see the red flags!
Anyway, that was perfect. I would have expected nothing less from you. Your empathy would sound sincere if it wasn't the lone demonstration. Specifically, if you demonstrated such big-heartedness towards others who have shared their pain, but not dealt you a narcissistic blow.