If in fact, it turns out this path is leading Mr. Hero in the wrong direction, I have no problems shifting gears...
This is such a powerful and vehemently transcended statement. It encompasses my intention wholly for him in terms of alcoholism. Whether or not I'm aware of how to achieve this is still an ephemeral thought. By allowing God to move and breathe through me, I can only hope my answer will be an emulation of my intention.
These quotes are A+, A1 codependency in action. Your intentions for him. Achieving goals for him. Leading him in the right/wrong direction.
The first things we learn here are that we didn't cause it, can't control it, and can't cure it. It's out of your hands. Nevertheless, you're neck deep in controlling and curing this man. Any progress you have in this relationship or in spite of it will come from there.
Any progress he makes will be
despite your best efforts.
Despite your best efforts.
Good luck.