Hi honey pig thanks for the post I read quite a lot of the Forum posts and we so enable my sister. For example this time we have sorted out her work for her again so she doesn't get into bother or lose her job, her partner has tidied up the mess she made at mums, the mess she made of two friends houses eg stained carpets, bedding and a freezer full of fod had to be thrown out cos she left door open, well guess what we will get that sorted too. So again she has ad a binge and no consequences to face, it's the same every time.
She made it thru the night without doin a runner from hospital, now we just have to wait to see if she wants the help available at the hospital ad if they believe her that he is ready to receive help.