The idea of people judging us for cutting off contact or for not being close to our alcoholic parents is something that I have struggled with a little and worry about struggling with as well. What annoys me about what happened in your situation, Kialua, is that this was a medical professional who totally misjudged the situation. I realize he was likely not a drug/addiction counselor or something similar, but it is frustrating. These are people who should be more knowledgeable and considerate of possible reasons and situations. I'm glad you chewed him out.