thank you Rose
I just want ot say thank you. You are the first person to cut through all the crap and say I just want ot say thank you. You are the first person to cut through all the crap and say The thing to focus on is whether you can live with the situation as it is right now? Can you be happy in the situation if it never changes? I take the question to heart since you know what I am going through. The fact is that I can not be happy if nothing changes so chances are we are going to divorce. He has 4 weeks to decide if he wants to come home but he has to be on the wagon to get in the door. I know I can not change him but this is his wake up call, his bottom. I am not hopeful. But either way I will have done what I need to for myself and my son.