Catherine628:
"No girl who plays the role of hero stays with a man who only uses her--she knows who she is!" to quote a friend of mine. You are teaching your daughters a valuable lesson although it will be hard on them. But having one good parent is always much better than 2 that are arguing and where one is addicted. I put up with emotional abuse and covert tactics where he actually wire-tapped the home phone but when the infidelity came out I drew the line in the sand & I believe maybe that's what did it for you also. I know your heart is breaking but hold strong and glad you have family to help you through this.