I am so sorry to hear about your sister. You obviously love her very much.
Originally Posted by
Nowheretoturn1 
how on earth do we get her sober again. (
Sadly, you don't. She has to get herself sober. She can do this with help, but she needs to accept the help and then want to quit for good.
Have you asked her if she would be interested in trying some AA meetings? Does she even think she has a serious problem? That can be the biggest hurdle.