I thought of you today, hoping you had a good evening out and that by now you'd have heard from him...I know exactly where you are. My situation is the same...she calls now only when she needs something and even though I know this pattern, I still expect her to just call and let me know how she is doing, good or bad! I am glad you are at peace. It really is a spiritual practice, as I am learning every day now. Take care.