Hey, db,
Thanks for the update! Your plan seems perfect--how nice for that little boy to have the FaceTime at night before he goes to bed. I remember when I lost my mom when I was 31. I had a one-year-old, and I remember asking my aunt (my mom's sister--the only one of my aunts/uncles I was somewhat close to because our families were in the same town) if I could call on her if I had baby questions. I don't know that I ever called her with any, but I know it made me feel a little less alone to know she was there if I needed her.
Your own kids will adjust, I'm sure--if not without a bit of sibling rivalry!
And so glad to hear you are taking good care of yourself, too. It sounds as if you are all on the road to healing.
Hugs (and a whole lot of admiration!),