It will be 3 years this August since she called me and I took her to a local hospital where she was checked-in as a danger to herself. After a hospital stay she went to therapy, meetings, etc. I have no idea if she is still going.
Yes, drama free is good. Yesterday and last night I had that feeling of dread. The 'nasty pit in my stomach' feeling... the feeling I used to have with all interactions with her. It wasn't until my wonderful husband pointed that out that I clued in. I just cannot go down that road or dance that dance again.