sistertrouble

Last night I just couldn't take it anymore. My RA sister called yesterday and was just nasty, mean, condescending, etc. Over the past week she has inserted herself in a negative way into my relationship with my sitter, several friends and the local community service project I'm involved in.

I tried so hard to remain positive. To not take things personally. Then I receive an email wherein she accused ME of lying... said I was shameful. Even though I know the truth, it still stung.

For some reason that email was my final straw. A light went off. I was done. I sent her a reply that said I was tired of her games and that she still insists on creating drama. That she was not to contact me again. That was MY boundary.

Of course, what I got back was a statement that I was the one with the problem and she'd help me... and that I was attacking her recovery.

So confusing. So sad. What am I missing?