You're right. I turned to his mother for help when he was at his worst and she was really sympathetic and supportive until I left then she cut me dead. Unfortunately I didn't stay away and ever since then I've harboured a grudge. I know intellectually that I shouldn't expect support from them but I am sometimes overwhelmed by the strength of my feelings. It runs pretty deep for me I guess. All stuff for me to look at in my own recovery. Thank you for sharing your experience. I needed that x