I have my issues with my A's family. I get on ok with his mother but she is pretty useless, and I can't stand his passive aggressive sister and I think his dad is a looser. For me though I've come to realise that a lot of my animosity towards Them is because I was looking to them to help and support me. Now I just turn to my friends and family and understand that's they are HIS family and whilst I don't have to be their best mate, if I'm with him I do have to accept and be civil to them. Like he has to mine. I just stopped relying on them for emotional support and left his family to him without coming across rude.