Always at the root of it....
Yep, I find it infuriating that every time something happens in my life that is sudden or dramatic that my RA sister is somehow involved.
ie. A friend of mine overheard my sitter being extremely rude to my kids at the pool. I fired the sitter.
Guess what I found out? Yep, my RA sister was sitting right there...egging on my childcare provider at the pool. And now? Same RA sister is attacking my friend for letting me know about the rude treatment of my girls.
Ugh. I won't ever understand.