I forgot to get into detail about the job situation. He claimed that his work stress caused him to need a drink to relax. Admittedly he had a stressful job so I understood his need to relax. We had the means to allow him to quit his job and pursue a new career. He now blames the stress of school on why he needs to drink. Basically, he doesn't deal with stress well. Now he is about done with school and will have a job where he can work from home. I fear this will only increase the problem at this point.