Originally Posted by
ShootingStar1 
.You didn't leave her and break your vows; she left you for the mistress of alcohol. Your wife has the choice to give up her alcohol and become healthy.
I think that this is such an excellent and important point!
SHE is leaving your family. She knows the impact of what she is doing on you and your daughter, and she is making her choice.
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