I am sorry you are going through this. I have no words of advice. But I do agree with JOJO and wonder why you and your son need to leave. It doesn't make any sense for the two of you to be uprooted when your H is the one who wants. Be confident in the fact that the home and its belongings are yours too, know matter what he tries to tell you. I WOULD NOT LEAVE!! I will tell you, i have been separated from my AH for ten weeks now, and it was difficult at first especially the first two weeks, but i am finding a peace I didn't know existed. I hope you can find some peace in this situation.