sorry to hear that bunnynest, but at the same time, maybe it can free you the way i feel it has freed me. i was finally at a point where i was almost begging inside for there to be ONE MORE REASON for me to just be done with this for good. do i feel somewhat weak for "needing" that reason rather than just feeling confident about ending things before that? sure...but in the end i don't think that's the important thing. i have had a hard time trusting my own intuition and gut feelings for a long time. a LOOOOONG time. if i've learned nothing else from this whole experience, it's that those are not feelings to doubt.
i moved all the stuff into the basement yesterday. it's out of my sight. FINALLY.
i wish you the best, bunny!