Because, when my exabf lived here, we ran up bills and, when it was time to pay them, he split and relapsed (yet again. my fault for believing he wouldn't do that to me again). Ex husband agreed to move in with me to help me pay my bills and keep my apt cos he needed to move out of his apt into something cheaper so he's paying his bills and mine too while I go to school. The last thing I wanted but my only option cos if I work, I wont get financial aid to pay for my last year at school.