Yes, it's amazing how we can lose ourselves in other people who basically do not or cannot give us support. Therefore it is our own responsibility to do the next right thing and take care of ourselves. Unfortunately those who are nearest and dearest to us haven't a clue. We must seek out those who bring us positive feedback and just let the ones you'd think would be there for us in times of turmoil behind. And not to abandon those people but just to take care of ourselves.