Welcome Ludo,
I too was a wine drinker. I stopped drinking in the summer of 2011, only to restart at a dinner party when a friend told me I didn't have a drinking problem......this from a woman who brought her OWN BOTTLE OF GIN TO THE PARTY!!!! I then tried moderation, but found I'd resumed daily drinking by the following year
I stopped drinking all alcohol last summer.....and found it much easier than moderating.
You've come to the right place......we understand