liz, kudzujean has a good point about him driving and drinking. My x did this all the time where I would hide keys all the time thinking he won't find them and be able to drive but even in his drunken state he managed to find keys and drive, ugh. I even would call the police and tell them he's driving drunk, fearing all the time he would kill someone. This was one of many reasons I divorced him I couldn't be a partner in his craziness anymore and I pray that you won't be either.