Ladybug sorry the Vicky Comment is a lady from bravos real housewives Orange County ... Embarrassed to admit....
Sad soul I'm do sorry for you aside from the drinking part my husband is the same. I do everything I don't think I've missed a single night bathing feeding putting them to bed and being the first one up in 7 years( my oldest is 7). I am responsible for all housework. I think that's why I drank do much honestly it's sad.
For my situation I think I created this. I always did everything even when offered help I'd say no eventually a persons going to get use to and only know how to have you take care if them.
I practicing baby steps on not being a door mat. Now that I'm sober I don't want yo be recentful. Because I do love my hubby so much!
Do you think your husbands drinking is problematic? Will he open up to you about it? You could be such good support to each other.