((WTBH))
It is sad when we see our friends in pain - when we have walked a similiar path and have found help and freedom ~ we want that for our loved ones too ~
It just may not been her time yet - YET being the key word ~
Yes, I can understand healthy boundaries and limited contact with unhealthy people - but also recovery lets us know that we don't have to be A or Z ~ we can have balance in all areas ~
Maybe by still being able to love this friend and be a part of her life (granted with healthy boundaries and respect for her choices) ~ maybe by her seeing you & your children survive and even thrive - she may find her own strength, courage and wisdom to make different choices for herself one day
Sometimes we are the only program people ever see ~
Not that you are responsible to save her but there is nothing wrong with staying in touch at a healthy level if you can ~
wishing her the ability to find a way to a better life - just like you have made that way for you & your children
Pink hugs!